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Shenzhen is a major financial center in southern China. It was also as a naval defense center guarding the southern approaches to the Pearl River. In short, Chinese men are very much like men all over the world.\
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Shenzhen official annual population growth rate % Shenzhen has seen its population and activity develop rapidly since the establishment of the SEZ. Role of Religion in Servile Life, Panel Dating shenzhen, 23rd World Congress of Political Science, 19—24 July 2014. He will stay home and play with the children. Retrieved 29 August 2013. In Guangdong province, it is the only city where the local language, Cantonese, Dating shenzhen, or Teochew, is not the main language; it is that is mostly social, with migrants from all over China. You know what's funny about you, Cornfed. They want romance and love in their lives. This is the first indication that she is taking you as a prospective groom. I like meeting people through shared hobbies and activities. How about idea in general. Apart from its political importance, Shenzhen is famous for its women.

Two or three Hong Kong villages south of the Shenzhen River also speak this dialect. Rivers and reservoirs Over 160 rivers or channels flow through Shenzhen. Retrieved 25 October 2011.\
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I have lived in Chengdu for the past 3 years and recently decided that it was time to move on. The main reason being that I do want to settle down in the relatively near future and I feel like I can't get the stable income, regular hours or the handsome guy for that to become a reality. I'm not saying everyone but enough that I've given up trying here. I do think I'm attractive but living in Chengdu has made me doubt it more than once. So I hope you guys can tell me: Where to meet new people in Shenzhen? That isnt in bars or clubs... How about people in general? I've made a lot of close friends in CD and I'd like to make more in SZ my Mandarin is not bad. I'm generally assumed to be 22-24 but I'm kind of bored by the party life style now. Is it realistic to meet people through dance troupes, art galleries, tattoo shops, at live music shows? I like meeting people through shared hobbies and activities. What is a good place to live for a not quite 30 year old who looks and acts super young but isnt crazy about the bar scene? So basically I'm asking you guys if you think SZ is a decent place for dating as a foreign girl and what the environment is really like. The dating scene in Chengdu is pretty depressing: young chinese guys 19-23ish really love foreign girls, the older guys want to try us out once a guy stared at me across a bar all night. Actually SZ is rather too big as well but I have friends there and I have been there before. Plus my friend told me it was easier to find live music shows there which I also enjoy. I've considered other cities but I dont really like all the staring in smaller cities and I dont want to start over while feeling completely alone. I have another friend moving there in september as well and another will follow me in December when her current contract ends. The only thing I'm really wondering is if no one will understand my mandarin. When I stumbled into the dating world whilst in China, one of the first things I discovered is that Chinese men are as diverse as any other men in any other country. Some are indeed what we might call racist while others are open to any and all races. Some want to find a wife while some want to jump into every bed they see. Some are vanilla and some make Germans look like Mormons. In short, Chinese men are very much like men all over the world. I guess what I'm really asking is are guys there as traditional as here? The women are much more open. Hi Tina, FYI, Shenzhen is the only city in Guangdong where mandarin is widely spoken and understood. But it is also super easy. You first decide they kind of guys you want to be with, then go to the right places to meet them. I personally went to bar 2 times only in my 30 years time can you believe that? So now it is not surprising to see why foreigners find hard to make friends here. It depends on the network you have, the place you go to for networking. You can go to cafe, coffee shop, small live house for music, sports center, and book store where they often shows good alternative films, go to places where you can sit down and talk to people. Just go to the right places and you will find the right friends then you may make someone right out of the friends you've made. You love China so much i think you deserve the best of Chinese men. Adam Hi, I just moved to Shenzhen 3 weeks ago, maybe I can tell you a little from what I've seen and heard. Basically it's pretty common to see foreign men going out with local women but it's quite rare to see Asian men dating other races - I can tell because a lot of pedestrians giving me strange looks when I was walking along with a Ukrainian girl on the street by the way, I'm Chinese. People who have lived overseas for a few years are generally more open-minded. You can consider those who've come back to China from Western countries. Actually SZ is rather too big as well but I have friends there and I have been there before. Plus my friend told me it was easier to find live music shows there which I also enjoy. I've considered other cities but I dont really like all the staring in smaller cities and I dont want to start over while feeling completely alone. I have another friend moving there in september as well and another will follow me in December when her current contract ends. The only thing I'm really wondering is if no one will understand my mandarin. You've made the right choice. SZ is the only livable city among the mega cities in China. I dont mean to hurt OP, but stay positive and be desirable will always leads you to find your partner. One of many reasons is China is not an immigration country!!!! China only choose very limited foreign culture input with same cautious it display when picking a foreign women to date. From reading OP's post, I got the feeling that you had a life pretty enjoyed yourself a lot. But 'enjoy yourself' life style isnt really ideal have a family life. Ok, let me put it this way: people have this and that whatever expectation for the future, OK? Love partying is a good way to meet people. In the end of day, people need to have a job and a family life which mean stable. No means of offence, dont tell me 'attractive' is only thing you have, beauty and youth will be gone by time. That's what's chinese culture tend to think. As I said, this is culture norms. If you are not intend to understand chinese culture and social norms, your chance of dating a chinese guy is very dim. Unless you encountered a really open minded one AND happen to have tons experience of living in a latino culture country. So it become a self feeding loops. This thread is a bit old but I will give my 2 cents here. I seldom go to bars, just like most Chinese guys. The bar scene in China is different from that in western world. Bars in China is not a place for Chinese to socialize, but a place for people to play, as crazy as they can. So when you date a guy in the bars in China. You can expect that this is just a game. If you want a stable relationship I suggest you go to some other places and events. I tried to change my life,found a right person. I admire your courage. I stayed in AMERICA a half year. I meet people through shared my hobbies and activities. Sure I made a lot of friend,but It seemed there was not guy who would to be my right person,maybeI was not luck. SZ is much more wild. What is SPECIFICALLY the problem with a traditional guy? A traditional man will honor your parents. He will work and bring the money to you so that you can maintain the household and take care of the children. He will listen to your advice and let you pick out his clothes and make sure that he is presentable. He will stay home and play with the children. If he loses his job, he will work, and do what ever it takes so that you will have food on the table and a roof over your head. He might be a Business Manager, but if it means that he would have to work as a janitor, he would do so. He would do whatever it takes. He will be loyal to you and to his family. No one will be permitted to break your family up. You won't ever need to check his phone to see if he has a girl on the side, because it is not the kind of thing that he would actually do. He won't be checking out other girls, and he will be the guy holding YOUR purse and standing in the clothing store while you spend the money that we made at work. I will tell you this. A traditional guy will stick with you and your children when you gain an extra 100 Kgs. A traditional man will never talk bad about your parents, and he would never cause you to lose face in public. What is so terrible about that? I know that many in the progressive media despise traditional men. But, is a man like Harvy Weinstein, Justin Bieber, or maybe Bill Clinton the role model that you want to support your family. After all, that is what you are talking about... It's in your question. You want to find a great guy, but you can't find any great guys because they are so traditional in China. The truth is that there are all kinds of guys. And maybe, just maybe, the guys that you are automatically discounting are EXACTLY the kinds of guys that would make you happiest at home. OH, I can hear you screaming at the computer screen! If you were really serious about your future, you would look into all alternatives. That is around 60 years. We can see how life works with the non-traditional guys. Just look at the divorce statistics. I can understand not liking a guy because he stinks. I can understand not liking him if he is lazy, or if you are not physically attracted to him. I can understand if he has bad manners and is a mess. But when you are looking for a long term mate, then you need to look at everything. You mate will either make you the happiest girl in the world or the most miserable. I would suggest that you take stock in the attributes that MEAN the most to you. All of these attributes are TRADITIONAL values. WHat's so wrong about that?
